Okay– we need to pull it back in this month.   We are coming around the bend of this 2014 (“7″=2+0+1+4) year– a year of deep spiritual and soul growth.  It may look like things have stayed stagnant, or that not much has changed in your life (for some) and yet for others it may look like “what happened to my life, I did/didn’t choose this”…. I want you to not look at the “outside” of your life– I want you to look inside of you.

Think back to where you were in January/ February…. maybe things were the same but you were handling-feeling- perceiving everything differently than you are now.  And for sure,  I know you didn’t know what you know now.  Maybe there have been some actions or moves that have been small but significant.  Maybe you came to yourself in a way you have never done before, maybe you have found pieces of yourself you didn’t even know were there or flexed character/spiritual muscles you didn’t think you could. Maybe your self care practices or spiritual rituals have deepened or taken on more significance.  Maybe you find your faith and trust in SELF and DIVINITY  are being or have been tested.  Maybe you feel like you have finally become your right SELF.  Maybe you have come through a crisis and found that that was exactly what you needed to grow.  Look back and you will see the progress– sometimes it is just as simple as seeing a belief different than you ever have.  Know though, completely, that your Spirit has been working very hard behind the scenes even if the upgraded version hasn’t yet been posted up yet!  (this is an analogy to this damn website I have been working on!!!)

If you are one where there has been great change– whether by choice or not– you want to look and see if these changes have made you more of you (the authentic you) or have they pulled you away from you.  Is your Spirit front and present in a bigger way (in all areas of your life) or have you lost your Spirit?

If you are one that played the back and forth game with your Spirit (it’s in charge and I am moving towards my destiny) and ego (now my wounds, fear, fragments, negativity is in charge and I have just sabotaged, defeated, sidetracked or lost myself) then this has been a tough year full of fits and starts  an if your ego has won — then you are probably not reading this now– but I KNOW your Spirit will eventually stage a coup and you will come back to your SELF and find your way again.

If you worked the 7  year well, you are more your authentic Self and more connected to your Source than you even thought possibl in ways you did not know existed.  If you worked the 7 year you are finding a Soul confidence emerge that you didn’t know existed and you have a connection to your intuition that is unshakeable.  If you have worked your 7 year well, you are finding you are being guided, supported and protected, even when you don’t know it or think you need it and you see where you can’t make a mistake or go in a  wrong direction no matter how hard your mind, ego or humanness try.  (See my 7 Tips for more on that one– sign up to receive them through my website).  But know for sure, even if you think this paragraph is not speaking to you, you have worked some version of this to some level or extent.

Even those that look like they have gone completely backwards have progressed.  Sometimes the militants have to look defeated but they are really underground gaining strength, power and strategy to overcome the oppressor. For some the Soul is deep inside, not present or shown. Sometimes this is when the Soul gains its greatest strength.  In addiction they call it ‘hitting bottom”  but the Soul was doing a lot of growth while the Ego was playing and running amuck.  The Soul comes back with a vengeance to right the life and move it forward to it’s next level of growth, peace, freedom and joy.  This is a classic example of the involution, revolution, evolution process.

I am going to do a webinar at the end of December so that we can finish processing this glorious 7  year and all its gifts and be ready to start the New Year  (a powerful 8 year)– where our Spirit can really take control and lead us right to our destiny and purpose.  More details on that later, but in the meantime, continue to read and work  your  7 Tips as they will be the key for your solid understanding on this.

So this month– what are we looking at?  Go back to what I wrote in the beginning– go inside.  Do not and I want to repeat Do not look for any information, validation or clarity on the outside.  You can only look to the outside for a confirmation once you go inside and up.  So for an example….”what am I supposed to be doing with my life?”   Outside— I will ask all my friends and family, I will go to a career coach, I will start taking a computer class, I will look into opening a card store.   Inside— ask your Spirit and Divinity this question and then go to sleep, go for a walk, meditate, pray, forget the question…. talk to your friend or friends and tell them or me what you know to be true and what is the answer to your question– even if it seems ridiculous, impossible, silly… you will get clearer as you speak.  When you hit ” Okay now I know what to do, I just don’t know how to do that”  — we are golden.  Because you are so not supposed to know how– that is where your Spirit and Divinity say– “but we do!!!!&%:))))— now we are cooking.  This is going inside, not outside.  mantra– “what do I need to know right now”  “Make me clear” Go Inside.

Outside says– “but my clients think I am a good medium and therefore I must be and this must be my right work(until someone on the outside says other)

Inside says–I am supposed to do this work and do it with the best of my Spirit, even though I don’t always understand why, how or what it means or how it all plays out– I just know, I can’t not do this or be this and I am not supposed to understand it all at this moment.

Outside says– you might be wrong and you can’t always trust yourself.

Inside says– You are always right and can always trust yourself and even when you are hearing a voice that you think is your intuition but isn’t– a false voice pretending– your spirit team, Divinity will protect you.

Only go “outside”  when your hear/know guidance from the your Soul and the Universe and say—“I think I heard you, I think this is what I am supposed to know or do, give me a confirmation of that so I am sure– and– give it to me 3x.”  That is how you go  and use the outside.

Of course, you want to literally “go outside”  because we get so clear, refreshed, renewed and vibrant from nature.  The Earth tells us this  in the last chapter of my book!  Even for me, to walk down near the very polluted Passaic River, in a very toxic section of NJ, nature energy and vibration  trumps the pollution by 100, 000, 000 or more power.

Watch for that shadow side that threatens to come up and obliterate your positivity.  You know, the voice or feeling that is dense, negative, angry, frustrated, disempowered, helpless, tired, annoyed, blah blah blah—Embrace it and turn it into power through humor.  “oh you again, the liar,  have some fun then get outta here!”  hehehe

Some tips for this month– inspired by Neale, Bets and Lois—

Remember and affirm that your Spirit is firmly in charge of your life and all that is happening and all that you are experiencing— everything the good and so called/perceived bad.

From that perspective, know that everything is perfect– even if it feels miserable, even if you don’t want it or understand it, it is perfect.

So if you are struggling financially— not sure why you are doing what you are doing— not in a relationship— are in a  bad relationship— if you are resisting anything at all—–if you are overweight—- if you are eating gluten, not eating gluten…..  your spirit has decided this and it has it’s reasons even if you don’t know them.  And of course your spirit always has your back so you are always doing the right thing.  There is no wrong thing and nothing is wrong at all.

have to hold this…

The more you don’t know something, the why or the how the better– the more confused you feel the better, the more you can’t see where things are going the better.  Just know your spirit is doing it all.

And realize this is for others as well– even the people who look  like they are an absolute mess.

Stay with these thoughts/beliefs please…

Peace

Ro